Reading my post again, I realized that for H it probably is easier to try to be a better parent/interact with them more when you only have to do it for a short amount of time vs. living with them full time.
Me-36 H-37 D11 S8 S6 M9 T19 ILYNILWY 11/10 discover EA 02/11 discover EA is really PA/H moved out 03/11 H wants to go to counselling,piecing 12/11 Find out still OW(plural), I'm officially done/detached 04/12
