Sounds just like my XW during the D process. They're (we both are) under extreme duress the whole time, wondering what the "other side" is thinking, planning, intending.
I coigned a term for XW during the heat of the sitch: VSV = venom spitting viper.
We are not our true selves under duress - remember that.
Things will calm down eventually, maybe not immediatley after settlement, but soon thereafter.
Good Luck Pic
I appreciate you checking in, Pickle.
I sincerely hope that I can stay strong and resolute on Monday itself. Talk about major duress.
Also couldn't help noticing that in your signature line, you didn't do a church annulment. What does that mean?