Originally Posted By: InAPickle
Sounds just like my XW during the D process. They're (we both are) under extreme duress the whole time, wondering what the "other side" is thinking, planning, intending.

I coigned a term for XW during the heat of the sitch:
VSV = venom spitting viper.

We are not our true selves under duress - remember that.

Things will calm down eventually, maybe not immediatley after settlement, but soon thereafter.

Good Luck
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I appreciate you checking in, Pickle.

I sincerely hope that I can stay strong and resolute on Monday itself. Talk about major duress.

Also couldn't help noticing that in your signature line, you didn't do a church annulment. What does that mean?


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
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