There are other people out there looking for companionship or an evening out that isn't solo. If you made it absolutely clear that's all you were looking for and that you were still hoping for a R with your W, would you be able to have some enjoyable times no strings attached?
I think it's all about setting expectations right up front.
For me, I wouldn't consider dating until I was really ready to move on and start something with someone new, because I don't know that I'd be able to control how I felt about the new person.
I also don't think it would be fair for you to date to meet and get to know new people if you allow them to think there's a potential future with you, until you think so too.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.