Everwhere is walking distance if you have the time

[mishka422]

There are lots of good things happening for you CTH. I'm so glad to hear it!

More than 50% of the time this summer? You are one super lucky dad! It sounds like your custody arrangement is working very well indeed.

I'll be honest with you, those dark thoughts and relived pain pop into my head still and my xh and I have been 'together' again for over 2 years. It's something that I'm afraid I'll deal with the rest of my life because of our proximity and my own issues. You will eventually be able to put her out of your head entirely except in cases of the girls. Those thoughts of 'what is she doing?', 'why would she do that?', and concerns over her situation will fade (except if they have an adverse effect on the girls of course).

Embrace your new opportunities and all the fun you are able to have with your girls. That is life's true gift! Time.