Crim, I did the same thing when I started thinking about dating. I did go out and although had a good time, I would have ran out on them if I got the call. And yes it would have been wrong to play with anothers heart. So many times I have had talks with women that want to know up front what would happen if you ex called to R. They did not like the answer. So I stopped dating altogether, until I felt the time was right. If and when it happens it will feel right, trust me on this, I have been following since the beginning, one thing you can do is hold your head up high and say to yourself that you did everything to make YOU a better man. Sorry I did not mean to hijack.