It’s been a few months since my last update. Since there has been a significant change in my sitch, I wanted to share with my fellow DB’ers.
Exactly 18 months to the day from the bomb, my W and I have agreed to reconcile our marriage. We will be signing the dismissal of the D in the next few days. I realize the road ahead will be very difficult, however I anxiously await the challenge.
I appreciate that Michele Wiener-Davis gives us the opportunity to support one another on these forums during some very difficult times. Early in my sitch, I was in contact with Leni as she was my coach. Very helpful and encouraging during my darkest hours. A BIG “Thank you” to her.
I also appreciate many of the members on these forums who gave me support and advice to help me navigate thru the muddy waters.
I have a lot to update and I will soon.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12
Me:44, W: 39 D:16, D:14, D:11(special needs) M:17, T:21+ Bomb:3/18/12 W contacted mediator for D:3/27/12 Separate since bomb Mediation, signed agreement 5/17/12 No talk of D since mediation
Well that's great, please keep us updated on this hard journey you are about to embark on. I will look forward to hearing your updates to give others hope.
Starsky - you were a huge help. I saved the prayer you shared with me nearly a year ago. Big THANKS to you.
I'll try to put together the details of the last few months in the next day or so.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
