TM, I would take what she has shared w/you w/a grain of salt. Talk is cheap and actions do speak louder than words. Let's see if she makes the medical appointment. Mlcers tend to think out loud so, sit back, watch the show and take it one step at a time.
I am glad that you pointed out about the "out of state" custody issue. She needs to be aware of it when looking for a new apt.
I am going to caution you about one thing...if she thinks that she can manipulate you w/kisses and flirting, etc., she will do it. You'll need to toughen your skin a bit, because she will try it to get what she wants...attention and whatever else along the way.
Good luck!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
