WHG- My w has been re-engaging w/ me and our kids more as well, stopping by more, inviting me to do things w/ them, etc..
It is confusing because we haven't had a r talk in months and I don't know where her mind is.
Part of me thinks her anger towards me has dissipated and she would just like to be friends (she has stated this a few times) which at the end of the day may be what's best for all of us.
I see Figgeroni's post and it makes sense on many levels but I also feel somewhat like our marriage was based on friendship (was yours?) and if my w is making a genuine attempt to improve that it doesn't feel right to shut that down.
The trouble is to not let them pull us back in and then have us expecting something more.
I have been struggling w/ this for a few weeks but just wanted you to know someone else is dealing w/ some similar dynamics.
