Got home from the gym and she had made some dinner for all of us. Sat with her and my D8 at the table and talked small talk (D8 helps with that) - and then she got called out on a work emergency. I am not sure if it was or not, but I decided that instead of going to my room and closing the door I would stay out in the common space and see what happened. She got home relatively quickly and we wound up talking for about 45 minutes. I spent as much time as I could listening to her frustrations about work, the couple (which is the middle of a D themselves) that is selling the house and all the drama around it and then we started talking about the future. She wants out, she sees a better life without me as her husband (not exact words, but the general feeling) - I stayed neutral, just listened and agreed where I could. We talked about the kids, about lawyers and family...I found the conversation to be frustrating and moving towards confrontational (it's clear her lawyer and family do not know about her A, and are telling her to get "as much from me as she can" )and I told her it was a nice talk, but I didn't like where the conversation was going, so I was going to bed. This morning it was relatively friendly, but just relative. She showed me houses she was looking at and we talked about some household stuff.
