I decided that I would no longer identify myself as a WAW in my threads. I'm just me. And my sitch is unique as is everyone's sitch. Labels only allow us to wallow in victimhood or blame ourselves.
I've told a few friends that he's said he might be moving in with her and they all say "What is he doing?" He's going around that mountain and that's his mountain not mine.
I'm working on enjoying the non-axiety that I've found in the past few days.
He texted me yesterday Ibut I haven't heard from him since then. I've decided I may text him on Friday and just say hi...in my attempt to be dim not dark. Don't know if I'll see him at that event we were both invited to, but I'm having no expectations.
I also found out through a minor snooping (I KNOW i'm stopping that..new goal) that he's getting back into an old hobby. This makes me laugh a) who's funding it b) how's she gonna cope when he's in the garage all weekend every weekend? I remember he did this when we were married. It took a year into our R and I felt neglected...we'll see. But ultimately none of my business so much so I almost didn't post about it!
