Haha Vera that is so funny And thank you, I am excited for it!
Val, I think you are right. I have recently started to notice the same and in fact it just happened to me this morning. I just have to hold on during those tough moments and trust that something else is coming along.
Mindfull I am laughing so hard at that story, so cute!! And yes I trust that one day I will be able to feel relief when certain actions don't affect me any longer.
So as I was planning for the upcoming weekend, I had a nice bonus thrown in. Both of my brothers will be coming here on Saturday (after the bike ride). Since we are all going to the Phillies game together on Sunday, they will stay with me Saturday to break up their drive. We plan to BBQ with the boys and just have a good night. I am so looking forward to it!!
S15 and I tackled the lawn yesterday and after 2 solid hours I have to say it looks darn good. I managed to work off some stress at the same time which was a bonus.
When STBX arrived to pick them up last night he seemed very cold and distant, and did mention the lawn looking good. It occurred to me later that he may have realized that we can get some things done that he thought only he could do. It may be mind reading but it made sense.
After not seeing them for a week and a half, I was surprised to see them back so quickly. He only kept them for 2 1/2 hours for a dinner. I texted him to see if he was still planning to take them on Thursday (additional day since he is giving up this weekend) and he said that he plans to take them fishing. Hopefully they will get some good time in with him then. I think the boys need to see their dad more than even they realize.
It's amazing how different and light I feel today when yesterday seemed so tough. If I can just remember this on the next tough day, I may be ok
And thank you, I am excited for it!
