Was talking to my H's best friend last night (who is also the H of MY best freind, we used to do a lot of couple/family stuff together), and he pointed out something that is so obvious I couldnt believe it.

My H is not just working in another town. It is a deliberate move practically. He is LIVING there. To be with OW. He has left everything behind here, even is work. OW must have hated that he would come over everyday and be with us on the weekends.

My H's friend said that H doesnt even really call him anymore. its like my H has shut out everyone for this OW.

H's friend also said he didnt think H expected me to react the way I have been (go DBing!) and i was pleased to hear that.

back later

busting

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home