Well, I guess I have finally detached enough and moved on because I got the most surprising text from my W this morning that I was not expecting.

She said "I am really sorry for everything I have done to you. I feel strongly that I need to say that to you.

The conversation then went to asking me if I really want a D still. I was honest and said I never really wanted a D. I asked her if she still wanted one and this is what she said "Honestly I did. Now I don't. i was so mad at you and mad at myself but I've done a lot of soul searching and I don't. For the first time in a long time I don't or at least I would seriously like to go to counseling."

We exchange more texts and we mutually agreed we did want to rehash the past and dwell on the negative moving forward. I told her that I know I'm analytical, could vomit mountains of information of what I have learned, and I'm a fixer but I don't want to approach it that way. She said lets learn from each other. i said ok let me know where you want to start be it counseling, activities, or talking.

She wants to meet at the park to play together with our S.

I have personally be looking at Mort Fortel's program. I know that is jumping the gun and to not get my hopes up or push things which I'm not and letting her take the lead on this. What do people think about Mort's program?

My W texted me a pic of our S over the weekend and had been more cordial day by day until yesterday came. Not sure what to think as she has done a variation of this before but I will see were it goes and willing to work if she seriously is. Actions will speak louder than words on both of our parts.


Me:29
W:28
S:2
M: 5 years
Bomb: 7-26-11
Separated: 8-20-11
EA w/ multiple OMs
W filed 1/2012