Something The Boys And I Have Noticed

[whitneypinch]

Tad I feel for you my friend !!!

Thank you for really being open and honest of your feelings and venting here.
I watch the reply posts you get for advice and it helps me too.

I will say this to you. Remove her from your friend list on FB and close all comments of your mutual friends so that you don't see ANY postings about her.
Better yet close your FB account down at least for a year until things settle down.

My XW is a marketing person in the technology industry so post bomb I was seeing and hearing about everything she was doing. I closed down all of my social media accounts and it helped immensely.
I am often tempted to Google her as now she is on TV on a regular basis. I know enough not to do it as it's too painful.

Try to remove as many of the opportunities for a negative experience as you can from the situation.

I am with you 100% Tad that we don't have a clue who our Xs have become. Complete opposite to the person we married !

I too am dumbfounded how they act like nothing has happened when they are around us.
On occasion I will get an email after the weekend I have the kids saying "I hope you had a fun time with the kiddies this weekend".
Sometimes I get an email after the weekend I don't have the kids saying "I hope you had a nice weekend".
It makes my blood boil. Sure it sounds all nice but it triggers me.
Does she not realize I am devastated on the weekends that I am not with my kids?
Nope she does not realize anything. In fact she probably has a great time on the weekends she does not have the kids !

Sorry for my little rant..

Hang in there buddy as tomorrow may be a better day..