Something The Boys And I Have Noticed

[tadpole1025]

Thanks everyone. Snodderly, as for your comment about her not knowing when to pick up S17, it has been changed again. She cancelled her dentist appointment because she has a bladder infection. I have no idea what one has to do with the other.

Now for the questions and comments:

It seems as if all is well in her world, but don't be fooled. I'm betting she's saying all these things on FB to keep the fantasy going. No mother would leave her children without some feelings of guilt, let alone her H and M.

I'm not so sure. She has said all along that she feels no guilt at all. She was entitled to this and did this for her.

Now about your crazy xw...well...no one knows what is going on w/her, but you can't rule out that she is acting out and who knows...maybe she put that out on FB to get a reaction/rise out of you....if she did, she has definitely pushed your buttons my man. She's living in Wonderland and every man that she meets and gets a crush on, I can bet she'll be posting that she's madly in love w/him. Stop drinking the kool-aid that she is serving up.

I know Snodderly, but why would she want to get a rise out of me? Like I've said, she has left me in the dust. I guess I'm just having a hard time wondering how long it will be before crap stops bothering me.

First and foremost you're not planning on doing anything harmful to yourself, are you?

Can't say that I haven't wished it.

Is this the same om that she's been seeing? If it is, think about this for a second. Why would she now be declaring that she's so in love when she's been seeing him for over a year? Something doesn't smell right.

Yes, it is the same one. I think she is just now doing it because she didn't want anyone to know when it all went down that she was leaving me for him. She probably figures enough time has gone by...

I believe the other posters are right. You may have been set up.

I just don't understand why though.

Im sorry I can't remember, but have you been to IC?

Went to marriage counseling but XW cancelled that. After she left, I went to IC, but quit going to him because he was pro divorce and I was trying to save my marriage at the time.

Look at what she's done to you Tad? Look at how she has mentally and emotionally ripped you to shreds? Only to layer it with her charm, witt, and appearing like she cares only to slam you again?And Again? Your Xw isn't capable of a healthy and truly loving relationship of any sort by the way she's treated you in the past and does in the present. This has NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU. You didn't do anything wrong! I know Tad, I know how much their venom leaves us in a huge state of disarray and devastation.

Yeah. I often wonder what happened to the beautiful woman I loved and trusted. She turned on me like a Pitbull.

I feel powerless when he acts like he's the happiest man alive after he devastated me and my girls. I feel powerless after what he's done, and then he comes around like absolutely nothing has happened and that we're best friends.

Wow. I can sooooo relate.

Pick one thing that you are interested in or a place you always wanted to go to. Put all your energies into making it a reality to try it or go there.

Hmmmmm......I can think of lots of things, but they all involved her. Guess I better do more digging.

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Tad