Originally Posted By: Horse
She has treated me like a piece of property that she is bored with and tossed aside.


I know how that feels and so do most of the people here.

You have to decide whether you accept that characterization you "think" she thinks of you as your own "truth"

Let's open our eyes wide here Horse.

You know your shortcomings in this mess.

What were they?

Yes she f@cked up and most here would agree that stepping outside the M was not excusable.

So swing away. Smash away. And yourself along with your M.

Self righteousness gets you through the first three months here.

Until you deide to stop being a victim of your wife's choices, you won't make any progress here.

When I asked you about what the mystery is.

I didn't mean figuring out your W's choices.

You may never know that.

I mean why you are here. What your vows meant to you.

What you mean when you say you love someone. Cause this is the hardest test of that don't you think?

I mean why would you after what she has done to you?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am