After telling her that I couldn't handle her being with the OM and didn't want to speak with her until they were over, she responded with "What happened to the man that told me he was going to win out in the end?". I said it just hurt too much. Since that talk, our conversations have been scarce.
Did I miss an opening? Should I have competed with the OM? Is it too late to compete with the OM since I did the LRT?
In the example you cited, it sounds to me like she wants to have her cake and eat it too. It even sounds like she was taunting you. She may even have sensed your desperation and thought she'd play you a little, to see if you'd turn up the heat in your pursuit.
I believe it is time for you to turn the tables on her. Refer to my post above regarding LRT. create that mystery and you may find that the shoe is suddenly on the other foot where she begins the pursuit.
Think about it.
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It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
