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Re: WAW learning to be a passenger Brit45 #2249531 05/29/12 09:27 PM
Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert L labug Member
labug Member L Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert	Thanks, Dakota! Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13 Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss

Re: WAW learning to be a passenger labug #2249537 05/29/12 09:36 PM
Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 714 South Dakota H heartbrokeinsd Member
heartbrokeinsd Member H Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 714 South Dakota	wtf..people saying thank you. thats a first..lol. brit anything i can do to try to help. you have done the same for me, time and again. maybe he wont change that much. maybe he doesnt have alot to do. if you allow him to be a man, without critizing him, you might be surprised. i know i didnt want to upset my W so i learned to be passive. not exactly good because it does build resentments. anyway. if you let him feel like a man again, he might act like one. you might like it, you might not. lookin forward to your new thread! m:31 W:32 M:8 T:11 S:10 D:5 Bomb:1/07/12 Separated:4/23/12 Divorced: 12/12/12

Re: WAW learning to be a passenger heartbrokeinsd #2249568 05/29/12 11:06 PM
Joined: May 2012 Posts: 1,108 B Brit45 OP Member
OP Brit45 Member B Joined: May 2012 Posts: 1,108	I think you learn by sharing with others and giving them help and support so yes thank you!!! It seems I do really good all day and then I can't shut off my mind when it's time to sleep. Anyone else have that problem?

Re: WAW learning to be a passenger Brit45 #2249570 05/29/12 11:09 PM
Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 934 V vera be fierce Member
vera be fierce Member V Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 934	Sometimes I do (usually when I'm up past my bedtime on here!). Can you try exercising before bed, or taking a nice bath while listening to relaxing music, or otherwise relaxing/meditating? I found that doing some serious treadmill time in the evenings helped me, plus it gets me out of the house (GAL - double bonus!)

Re: WAW learning to be a passenger vera be fierce #2249586 05/30/12 12:07 AM
Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert L labug Member
labug Member L Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert	I didn't sleep well for the first year of this despite putting a lot of miles on the bike, yoga and meditation. Some people find melatonin helps. Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13 Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss

Re: WAW learning to be a passenger labug #2249611 05/30/12 02:09 AM
Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 714 South Dakota H heartbrokeinsd Member
heartbrokeinsd Member H Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 714 South Dakota	unfortunately i dont sleep either. 4 hrs a night if im lucky. i pray. for sleep,for peace,for strength. alot of times it helps. im not very religous, but i am quickly finding the power of prayer m:31 W:32 M:8 T:11 S:10 D:5 Bomb:1/07/12 Separated:4/23/12 Divorced: 12/12/12

Re: WAW learning to be a passenger heartbrokeinsd #2249613 05/30/12 02:14 AM
Joined: Jan 2012 Posts: 1,219 S scaredsilly Member
scaredsilly Member S Joined: Jan 2012 Posts: 1,219	there are no atheists in foxholes! nor on DBing! M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16 Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing

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