If you're worried about her spying, then one of the boundaries is that she is never to be alone without you in the house. Make sure you have a lock on your bedroom door, and keep your computer in there. Let her know that you do not trust her, but that she is the mother of your child, and that is the only reason that you are even thinking about having her in your space. And, do not, be your D1's babysitter, although that will look good to a judge, if she's off partying when she should be looking after her child.
Just some thoughts.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
