Kindness is always the best route to take. I'm glad your H isn't being mean to you, and has given you some reasons why this all happened. Most LBS's don't get that opportunity.
Stay well.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
