first and foremost take care of your D's welfare. You can show her compassion in her sitch, but don't let her dictate the rules. Maybe you can start thinking of some boundaries now. She's very close to hitting rock bottom.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.