I haven't got time for the pain

[tested metal]

OM is gone.. and going to prison for beating up STBXW and interrupting her emergency call.

WOW! Now STBXW calls sobbing and begging me to let her stay at my apartment on the couch for a couple of weeks until she has a place to stay. She apparently has no friends that will put up with her.

I told her that I do not want to live with anyone who isn't committed to a relationship.

I told her I don't want to confuse D1 anymore than she might already be.

I told that I had to think about it and would let her know my decision by tomorrow. She kept begging after that!

I even let her know that everytime I have stuck my neck out for her I have gotten it chopped off. She appologized for that and said she didn't realize it.

When I finally ended the call, she asked if she could come over to talk after she was done with work. I was hesitant, but said that would be ok. I don't want to shut doors completely, but I don't want her to stomp all over me either.

Before I hung up she said I was a really good person about 5 times.

I don't know if I can trust her as far as I can throw her right now.

Any thoughts about her staying on the couch? We are getting divorced mind you.