Tad, I'm in agreement w/BeingMe...be grateful for what you have today (in the present). The future it tomorrow and none of us will have a clue as to what tomorrow may bring. The present is a "gift" that we receive each and every day we get up and face the world for another day. Embrace the happy moments and enjoy your children.
Now about your crazy xw...well...no one knows what is going on w/her, but you can't rule out that she is acting out and who knows...maybe she put that out on FB to get a reaction/rise out of you....if she did, she has definitely pushed your buttons my man. She's living in Wonderland and every man that she meets and gets a crush on, I can bet she'll be posting that she's madly in love w/him. Stop drinking the kool-aid that she is serving up.
I hate to say this, but you are still so attached to the situation that you are reacting to each and every little thing that she says or does. You need to stop trying to analyze her or her actions/words...it's driving you totally crazy and you are the adult here....you need to stay balanced for yourself and your children.
Nothing in the mlcer's world is what it appears to be....Tad, live your life as if she were dead. Pour the kool-aid down the drain and say no thanks when friends want to share rumors/gossip w/you about her....it's not worth it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
