Wow, as posted in the Newcomers forum it's been a little of 6 months, but seems like 6 years. I truly think that Retrouvaille and dialogue saved our marriage.
Right now, W and I are beginning our new marriage together after being together for 22 years. God has performed a miracle on us. It won't be easy all the time, but I have learned to be a better man through all of this and for that I'm grateful!
W and I are going on a vacation this week and it should be great. I'll post more later, but thanks to all at DB for your support. I wouldn't have made it without all of you and your advice/experience. Later, J
M 43, W 40 T 22. M 14 D 14, S 9, S 8 DD 11/21/11 Retrouvaille 4/13/12--and the healing begins as we begin a new journey together!