[quote=25yearsmlc] this^^ sums it up well. But know that once some time has passed and she's not HAPPY, she is cognitively smart and aware enough to notice it. She may not tell YOU that she's still miserable OR
she may even blame the lessened time with son as the cause - but even then, at some level, she seems like the type who would eventually look in the mirror and own some of this. MAYBE NOT TELL YOU, but still, she's no idiot and her pride does not appear to be SO HIGH that she'd never face the truth...
Glad to read your perspective on this, 25, because it seems like the best hope in my case too...
Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12