Well it has almost been a month and thought I would check in on the boards and provide an update on the situation. I found that rather than journaling on a daily basis here that by going through my old posts and the input from all of you has helped me out tremendously.
The date nights have been a real hit with my W. Now when time permits we are meeting each other for lunch and enjoy the time away from the kids. My mom has been taking the kids overnight and we both now look forward to the nights out.
We have been doing this and things between us are getting better. Then my W was terminated from her job. She has taken this hard, but I have been supportive of her. Rather than harping on her for what had happened I have told her that she will find another job and to move on.
She has put her weeding ring on again and changed her facebook back to married. I did not make a big deal about either as the last few months have made me apprehensive. She is also more affectionate hugging and kissing me when I leave and come home.
She apologized for the last few months and has realized how much I mean to her (her words). I said nothing, but listened.
I know that I have a ton of work to do in order to make this a successful and happy marriage. I know that I have to share my feelings with my W and that I have to communicate with her. I don't know if this is piercing, but I know that I don't want my M to go back to what it was.
