Yes, I know that and offered to work on reconciliation several times. Her repeated answer: "I want to be separated." As far as her needs - I have tried to get her to talk about them with me. I have my ideas of what they are, but I need her to tell me. She needs to say them. She won't. I understand that she was unhappy, hence the A. Does not excuse the A, but explains it. I have told her I would forgive her and we would work on the M, but she won't.
