I do not want to be married to "this" woman, and she is hellbent on moving on. I took the kids away this weekend to see my family, and she spent the weekend with him, at his apartment. They house hunted together and had a grand old time. Am I angry? Yes. Do I feel like I am disposable? Yes.
But ultimately I am filing because I do not want this arrangement. A SAHM who has decided that she needs to do whatever she wants, make any excuse for it and damn the consequences.
I do not want to condone it, accept it, or in anyway approve it.
I asked her to stop, she said no. I asked her to move out, she said no. I asked her to switch weeks at the house so the kids don't have to move, she said no.
I am not being respected. My boundaries are not being accepted.
I see no other choice.
I am not doing this to "wake her up" - I am doing this for me.
