Can someone explain why the mlc'er tries to connect with their children when they didn't before. I kind of get it, but don't they realize being a full time dad would have been the best solution, not the every other weekend dad? (Yes I know, silly me, they don't realize anything logical) My H is trying harder with the kids, but really he's just the "fun uncle". My cupboards are full of candy that he brings them each time. I guess this is more of a vent then a question! He really thinks he's going to get father of the year award just because he doesn't ignore them anymore. His parents aren't much better. His dad is a control freak who mapped out H's life, so I can see why we are where we are today. His mother thinks whatever H does is great. If I hear "Poor _____ has to drive so much to see his children" one more time I will scream. He was the one 18 months ago who kept asking me to call my mom (who lives in the city where we live now) to see if we could move in with her asap. Both his parents want to sweep bad things under the rug and paint this situation as "its worked out happily ever after for me". Augh! Sorry for the rant. IL's live in where I live now too, and I have to see them more... can you tell they are driving me crazy.
Me-36 H-37 D11 S8 S6 M9 T19 ILYNILWY 11/10 discover EA 02/11 discover EA is really PA/H moved out 03/11 H wants to go to counselling,piecing 12/11 Find out still OW(plural), I'm officially done/detached 04/12
