What you think drives how you feel. You can change what you think by trying to see her point of view, different as it may be from your own.
Do you want to vent or do you want to grow?
Are you a victim or do you have any power to change your half of the equation?
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MrBond.... the only issue that I am aware of is that I worked way to much to support the family, often times coming home and just dropping from exhaustion, letting the financial pressures of life cause me to neglect my wife... a month after she got a job I stopped working all those hours because be were on top of things, but by then it was to late, a coworker, who makes alot more said and did all the right things to get in her pants....
This is all we know so far about what went wrong in your marriage, and it appears you own none of it - it was financial pressures and her coworker. Is there anything you can learn about relationships that can make you a better partner and coparent in the future?
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
