So there were about 5 places I wanted to quote and say YES me too!!! LOL

I had quite a few dreams like that. One where I met her and I thought she and him were just friends now and then she casually said so when do you plan to change your last name and then I flipped out on him. I too got angry that even in my dreams I was robbed of peace.

I totally know what you mean about not trusting. It happened so many times. And I still have to stop myself from reminding him about appointments and instead giving him that space to be independent.