Hey CES, sounds to me like your W still struggles with secretive behaviors that were big triggers for you in the past. The fact that you are calling her on them and/or she is owning up to them instead of waiting to be found out is a great step forward, IMO.
I believe it has been said around here that piecing is the hardest part of this journey. So I guess you should expect setbacks from time to time. It might help both of you to acknowledge openly that you will experience these setbacks so as not to allow them to derail your progress.
All in all, things do seem to be looking up for you and your W. Keep plugging along.
Wishing you all the best!
Me51 W53 S17 S14 M22 T25 Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11
It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
