Accuray, I appreciate your putting your eye to the keyhole, in a non-kinky sort of way.
I can easily imagine your parents' M being a vision into my future. *sigh*
H's not intentionally being a jerk, he just doesn't think he is. It ties back to the convo that KD and I had in my last thread about guys acting childish and "pestering girls for fun." KD and I have a different take on it, and perhaps boys and girls have a different take in general because it's the girls that are being picked on. Point is, H has behaviors that I find disrespectful (ie. eating food off my plate,) he knows how I feel, he does it anyway because in his opinion it's NOT disrespectful.
Maybe my shorthand of saying he's a jerk to me is too rough for some people. For me, when you know someone doesn't want you to do something to them and you do it anyway, I think you're being a jerk. (Sorry KD)
I have no doubt that he would like more affection, but he isn't doing what he's doing (eating off my plate) in order to get more affection from me. He's just doing it because he doesn't see anything wrong with it.
Is there something specific you would like me to ask him?
