Nope, just tired of him hurting me. Stepping away, focusing on me, going to be my naturally happy self. Besides, I've already witnessed that doing that makes him happy, too, so I have no idea what your complaint is, or how you think that's punishing him.
Zig, I have issues with being intimate with my H because I have issues with my H, not because I have issues with intimacy. Even this weekend amidst his happiness with me, he was still a jerk to me several times. I just opted to not let it bust my mood. It doesn't draw me to him, however.
So, day one of stepping away and having some summer fun: It's raining so that foils my plans for a bike ride or kite flying, so instead I think we'll go to the movies. I'm going to do a little volunteer work up at church this morning while it's cool then plan for a matinee. Oh, and I have to pick up books for my summer classes.
