am i better off without him?

[labug]

And that happens, it's a part of the process. It's painful but on those days get up and do something for you.

None of this happens quickly. Break your goals down into very small, achievable goals.

Sounds like you have some great GAL activities starting.

What else are you going to do? What are some things you've always wanted to do. Write those down no matter how crazy they sound. Choose a few to work towards.

Take the focus off him and the marriage. Do what works for you.