Ahh...isn't it nice to enjoy those qualities that are DIFFERENT from our exes?
The men I've dated since my ex have included: A messier man (which I actually enjoyed, because my H is kind of a clean freak)
A man who insisted I eat ice cream with him every night (nice, because my ex was a nazi about sweets)
Men who have all praised my physical attributes (nice, because my H was always picking at my flaws)
There are reasons - mostly good reasons, I suppose - that we all were attracted to our exes. But there's something very w=sweet about enjoying these different facets in a new relationship. And the hope of finding someone who is an even better match.