It was years ago, something my mom set up for the family. I did it because I had to at the time, because mom said so.
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Just be happy... no reason...
I don't need a reason. I am generally a happy person. I only get this way when I'm trying to fit a square peg in a round hole, and everyone keeps telling me it's obvious how to do it and I'm doing it wrong.
It's not TO spite my H, it is IN spite of. He is a jerk to me in many ways. The only real challenge is going to be to maintain my happiness in the context of life with him, similar to a kid having to deal with a bully. Being happy on my own has always been easy for me. Be damned if I do, damned if I don't in the context of a M relationship gets a little draining.
