Scared this DB stuff is hard. It is a hard concept to grasp. I can feel your anger and you are right to feel that. You have been hurt. But don't do what I did and take the victim stance. Don't sit there feeling helpless, hopeless and powerless. You are none of that. It is easier said than done but we must try.
I know you gave yourself till this December to stop standing and only u will know. I fantasize too that my Ws plans will fail and she will fall flat on her face. But the more I think about it the more I hope it works out for her. She is scared and hurting also.
My job is to be ready for either option and to have an answer. I need to have an answer either way and it to becareful thought out one.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
