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Re: WAW learning to be a passenger vera be fierce #2249275 05/29/12 01:08 AM
Joined: Apr 2011 Posts: 685 G greenblue90 Member
greenblue90 Member G Joined: Apr 2011 Posts: 685	Just retouching on the whole taking charge thing. I can say from personal experience that both your husbands loved you enough to put you (and your decisions) first. There were many times where I (mistakenly) yielded to her in order to keep the peace, or in some ways "spoil" her. I wanted her to have what she wanted, eat what she wanted, and do what she wanted to do. In turn I got labeled as spineless, and rewarded with a WAW. Trust me I can really empathize with your husbands, and don't blame them for what they did. If theyre anything like me they were probably raised to unconditionally love someone, and did not receive unconditional love in return. So they acted out. Now they're seeking someone to do what they expected you to do. I'd be there too had I not found this site and others.

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WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/23/12 08:09 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	R33	05/23/12 08:27 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	1702	05/23/12 09:59 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Truegritter	05/23/12 10:30 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	breakdownbill	05/23/12 10:48 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/23/12 11:36 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/23/12 01:12 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	labug	05/23/12 01:38 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	heartbrokeinsd	05/23/12 02:16 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	needgrace	05/23/12 02:48 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	vera be fierce	05/23/12 02:59 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/23/12 03:08 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/23/12 06:58 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	MrBond	05/23/12 07:04 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	~ kd ~	05/23/12 07:53 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/23/12 08:11 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	greenblue90	05/24/12 08:59 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/24/12 09:39 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/24/12 10:43 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/24/12 11:52 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/24/12 01:44 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/24/12 04:24 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	needgrace	05/24/12 05:16 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/24/12 10:38 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	heartbrokeinsd	05/25/12 12:37 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	jks	05/25/12 12:44 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Truegritter	05/25/12 05:34 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/25/12 06:10 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/25/12 09:53 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	scaredsilly	05/25/12 10:09 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/25/12 10:56 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	scaredsilly	05/25/12 11:02 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/25/12 12:29 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	labug	05/25/12 02:40 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	vera be fierce	05/25/12 02:44 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	vera be fierce	05/25/12 02:44 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/25/12 03:19 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	heartbrokeinsd	05/25/12 03:25 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/25/12 03:31 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	needgrace	05/25/12 04:38 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	needgrace	05/25/12 04:40 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/25/12 04:55 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	jks	05/25/12 06:01 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/25/12 06:08 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/26/12 07:28 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/26/12 07:29 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/26/12 12:55 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	1702	05/26/12 01:09 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	scaredsilly	05/26/12 01:37 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/26/12 01:52 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/26/12 08:54 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	1702	05/26/12 09:20 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	scaredsilly	05/26/12 09:54 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/26/12 09:56 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	heartbrokeinsd	05/26/12 10:43 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	labug	05/27/12 03:43 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/27/12 07:35 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	scaredsilly	05/27/12 11:53 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/27/12 12:22 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/27/12 01:37 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	1702	05/27/12 01:54 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/27/12 02:06 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	1702	05/27/12 02:14 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	labug	05/27/12 02:38 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	1702	05/27/12 02:49 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	labug	05/27/12 02:53 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	scaredsilly	05/27/12 02:58 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	1702	05/27/12 03:08 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	labug	05/27/12 03:30 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/27/12 04:13 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	heartbrokeinsd	05/27/12 04:23 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/27/12 04:33 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	greenblue90	05/27/12 11:19 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/28/12 06:14 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	greenblue90	05/28/12 11:44 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	greenblue90	05/28/12 11:44 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/28/12 01:20 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	greenblue90	05/28/12 01:43 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/28/12 02:08 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	labug	05/28/12 02:11 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/28/12 02:31 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/28/12 06:56 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	scaredsilly	05/28/12 08:07 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/28/12 08:42 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	vera be fierce	05/28/12 10:13 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	greenblue90	05/29/12 01:08 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	labug	05/29/12 12:59 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	greenblue90	05/29/12 02:07 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	heartbrokeinsd	05/29/12 02:24 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/29/12 02:35 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	greenblue90	05/29/12 02:43 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	labug	05/29/12 02:48 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/29/12 03:15 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	labug	05/29/12 03:20 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/29/12 03:23 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	needgrace	05/29/12 03:48 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	heartbrokeinsd	05/29/12 05:19 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	unbidden	05/29/12 06:00 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/29/12 06:15 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	labug	05/29/12 09:27 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	heartbrokeinsd	05/29/12 09:36 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/29/12 11:06 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	vera be fierce	05/29/12 11:09 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	labug	05/30/12 12:07 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	heartbrokeinsd	05/30/12 02:09 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	scaredsilly	05/30/12 02:14 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/29/12 02:27 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/29/12 01:20 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/29/12 01:21 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	labug	05/29/12 02:05 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	1702	05/27/12 03:00 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	FuzzyBear	05/27/12 02:56 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	labug	05/27/12 02:04 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/28/12 01:40 PM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	LIO	05/24/12 01:57 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Truegritter	05/24/12 04:26 AM
Re: WAW learning to be a passenger	Brit45	05/24/12 08:15 AM

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