I sent H the following:

Hi H

Thank you for talking with me this afternoon and for opening up as much as you could and did.

I am sorry for anything I ever did to hurt you in our marriage. I never did it knowingly or intentionally and would take it all back if I could.

This whole experience has been so incredibly difficult and life changing for me, but if it has brought you to a place where you can work through what must be some really painful things, then I'd do it all again tomorrow.

I continue to love you with all my heart, and wish you peace, strength and happiness.
_______________

I know it's not particularly DBing, but it's true and from the heart. And this situation isn't about DBing anymore. It appears that H is on a far bigger right now.


me 45
H 46
T 5
M 2.5
BD Sept 6 2011
OW Sept 8 2011
Threw him out Sept 8 2011