did you accomplish any of your short term goals? TRY to note them and pat yourself on the back when you make them.

Do this for a 90 day increment and then, and not before, assess how it's going.

UNLESS it's clear that something you are doing is hurting your m, continue doing the new behaviors long enough so she trusts that you are making REAL change that she can trust.

Remember this simple truth:

she won't come back unless she believes marriage to you can be

better/different, than before.


YOU Must show her it can. By changing YOUR ways.


Make sense?


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change