IF she wakes up, it's ONLY going to be b/c you moved on. And even then, I doubt it would happen very quickly, based on her history.
But it might happen - and if it does, we can all support the restoration of your marriage if that's what YOU want.
And if it doesn't, then you'll know you've given this your real true most patient best. Your choices are few. And please, please
think about this-
Sometimes, "trying again" and "staying on..."
is a form of giving up. It's giving up on yourself and a happier future b/c at some level you are more comfortable with a miserable present day life
then a future of the unknown.
I believe with all my heart that a man like you on his own, will heal and then will look for love in a healthy woman, &
will be a lot happier eventually, than a man in your shoes now, just taking it, day after day - w/no change likely EVER.
And your kids matter too.
What are they learning by witnessing this nasty loveless marriage?
What else could you teach them instead?
Just Think about it.
((( )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
