Peringo - Do your best for joint custody, as in my opinion its the better option for the kid. Work out visitation to the best of your ability. The best thing to keep in mind is, "Is this the best thing for my son/daughter." When it comes to custody and visitation, the key thing to remember is it is not about you or your ex, but about your children whom you both love.
Val - Thanks as always for the advice. It is hard to fight that want to understand her thoughts and emotions, and sometimes even harder to fight the decisions she is making (i.e talking to "That Guy") I have to keep reminding myself its her mistake to make.
I hope everyone is having a great memorial day weekend!
