I'm a rational person. I don't know how to be anything else. I do things for a reason, at least usually. If there isn't a reason, then it's just automatic and I'm not needing to "choose" to do it or force myself.
My frustration in this process lies in almost never being able to get an answer to a direct question. (Thanks, GWN, for answering my questions about intimacy. It has been one of the few.)
Yes, KD, I have volunteered at a homeless shelter. Notice, I answered your question, without analysis, without condemnation for your motive. Simply answered it, then you can do with it whatever you want. I would like the same is all.