In-Home Separation, One Year Point

[adinva]

Thanks CES! I'm pulling weeds outside, must be 100 degrees out there! Came in for another bratwurst, yum! And check the boards over lunch.

I think mindreading is a bad idea, but trying to learn what makes your spouse tick is a different thing altogether. This should come from conversation but since my H and I are in such a bad spot I do it through observation. I am learning that things I judged before are now best understood, with the recognition that I am also not perfect, but trying.

I wish I could tell h how much better equipped I am now to be a partner to him, but that's not db and it wouldn't work. He has to realize it on his own.