Adinva,

Your posts always teach me a lot and make me think, dwell and then apply.

What you say about staying committed to your M keeps running through my mind.

I read once that the reasons why we marry someone--physical attraction, intellectual connections, great sex, good conversations, need to be together, etc. etc.--have nothing to do with the skills needed to stay married, which is figuring out how to work through problems together and giving each other reason and confidence to grow and the space to be alone

Huh.

I'm really inspired by the skills you are applying in figuring out how to stay married.

WofP