Oh we did that. He never chose anything by the end even though I was practically screaming that I didn't want to choose dinner tonight!!!! MIL loves to say he's do laid back he's horizontal.

I'm starting to see that some people decide to change like you and others are more comfortable not changing like your cousin. What I want for him doesn't matter. He thinks he can be who he always was in this R and because she and I are different it'll be different. Who knows?

I have decided that I am going to work on myself so much that when I'm healed and whole I'm be the most eligible bachelorette in the world! I'm just trusting a higher power that one day in the future I'll have someone in my life...no need to worry about it now!