KD, I thought I was evaluating myself and trying to empathize with him in asking if this "intimate" conversation was all there was, if my expectations are too high. If they are, then that's an area I need to work on. I know a lot about what I H did growing up (there's his H.S., that's where he played basketball, he floated on that river one summer, etc.) I just don't have a clue who he is, today. Everything he did share on an emotional level was before we got M'd, and all that has proven to be not true.

I'm trying to evaluate my expectations, against what HE says is intimacy. Any thoughts on that?


Me:49 WAW H:59
T:19.5 M:19
S:13