Thanks everyone for the responses. It definitely helps to just come here and vent frustration sometimes. And thanks especially to adinva because you have got me thinking more about myself which is the goal here.
At the moment I am struggling the most with mt wifes......now I am gonna say selfish behaviour here as that is how I see it, happy to hear other view points though. My weekend. I offered to get up to kids so she could sleep in, so I have to get her up at 11am so I could get changed to get some bread for the kids lunch. She then decides to go shopping and is gone until 3pm. She comes home and I said I am gonna have some time for me now and jump on the computer for a bit. I have half an hour and a friend of her "just drops by" so she ignores the screams as the kids tear the house apart and talks gym stuff with this woman for an hour. I sort the kids out put them to bed, do a work out on my own (home gym set), have my dinner and finally get my down time. All this would be fine if it was one day so she could have a day off but Sunday she had organised to go and look at a body building competition she is planning on competing in. Leaves at 7am, the flyer for the thing says finishes approx 2pm, gets home at 8pm and says oh sorry we went out for dinner after. No call or message and I am restricing contact so I act like I dont care and dont call or text either. Walks in says wow I am tired and goes to bed! (We are in separate bedrooms of course).
Tonight I get home and she is dressed ready for the gym and says as she is leaving why are you acting so cold to me? I mean I have not seen the woman at all for the past few days and I am cold? Oh but the real kicker is she is going away to see her sister Friday afternoon this week and is not back til Sunday arvo! What a life! Its great when you have no responsibilities.
My big problem is her GAL is makin mine hard and hers is working big time on me, sucking me in. Help?
