"W, when you treat me this way and threaten me, it shows me how I cannot expect or assume that you'll be fair w/me in South Carolina,
or that you'd ever put your anger behind you... WHEREAS, In California, bad mouthing your spouse is called "parental alienation" and it's frowned upon so much that it's grounds for LOSING custody....& since
I don't know SC's laws BUT I like the protection of California law and fear you'll only keep on harping about me to son & pressure me to give up my rights -- I can think of NO reason to go there.
The negative carping will damage him more than it'll damage me....and you can't see that, which is sad b/c it means your anger is your priority, not our son."
Were you serious about me using this as a possible message, 25?